Elder, Teacher, and Father, Raphael Ben Yaakov, Passes on.
The cycle of Jewish life, including birth, marriage, and death, is an inescapable aspect that affects individuals from all backgrounds, irrespective of their location or religion. Death, in particular, is a universal phenomenon that knows no boundaries, and its impact is felt across the globe. Regrettably, the Ebonyi State Jewish community has suffered a significant loss with the passing of one of its most esteemed elders, educators, and paternal figures, Mr. Raphael ben Yaakov, also referred to as Raphael Eze Nwokwu.
Raphael ben Yaakov was a highly accomplished individual who had made a name for himself as a building engineer. His expertise had led to the construction of numerous iconic structures in Obosi, Onitsha, Nsugbe, Onueke, and many other places he has worked. His dedication to his faith and community undoubtedly matched his professional prowess. After my first encounter with him in Obosi, where he had lived for many years, Raphael was drawn to Judaism and began to study Torah and the Hebrew language. He quickly became a strong and influential figure among the Jews of Onitsha, where he resided, and those of Ebonyi, his state of origin.
Throughout his life, Raphael had been a shining example of a devoted servant of Hashem, always putting the needs of others before his own. He was particularly passionate about helping the poor and vulnerable, and his generosity was evident in the numerous acts of tzedakah he performed for various Jewish communities. His selflessness and kindness had earned him the respect and admiration of all who knew him, and his passing has left a vacuum in the lives of those who loved and cherished him.
Tragedy struck last December, 2024, when Raphael called me over the phone and also extended the message to a couple of other Jews of Ebonyi State to inform them that he was ill and had returned to his village, Umueze-okoha, in Ezza North Local Government. While his loved ones were preparing to visit him, his daughter, Deborah Eze, broke the news of his passing away. The shock was palpable, and the news sent a cold feeling through the bodies of all who heard it. It felt as though time had paused, and the truth of Raphael’s death was too overwhelming to process.
The Jewish community in Ebonyi State and beyond fell into mourning as the news of Raphael’s passing spread. They quickly organized themselves at Umueze—Okoha and laid him to rest. The loss of such a remarkable individual has left a void that would be hard to fill. His sheloshim, a memorial service that marks the 30th day after his passing, is scheduled to take place on January 18th, 2025, at his compound in Umueze-okoha. As the community comes together to pay their respects and celebrate Raphael’s life, they will also be praying for the repose of his soul.
As we mourn the loss of this extraordinary individual, we take comfort in the knowledge that his legacy will live on through the countless lives he touched and the many good deeds he performed. May his soul rest in the bosom of Avraham; may his memory be a blessing to all who knew him; and may his family be comforted among the mourners in Zion.
The passing of Raphael ben Yaakov is a poignant reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing every moment we have with our loved ones. Reflecting on his life and legacy reminds us of the importance of leading a life filled with purpose, kindness, and generosity. May his example inspire us to strive for greatness, to love without condition, and to serve others with humility and compassion.
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